Marriage counselling helps you to create an environment at where each partner can share their true feelings. Every person is unique & have their expectations in marriage but willing to give space for the partner.
What used to be marriage & What is marriage now. If the meaning of marriage has changed in the relationship then you should learn iNtegra approach for marriage.
Do you feel like this :
I don’t believe in marriages , I believe in companionship . If like to share your life and enjoy the journey of life with someone special . You choose them as your partner and start walking together . Directions can differ but destination is the same . I would say Marriage is society driven and defined relationship to give legal name to a companionship of two individuals . It puts conditions and defines the roles and responsibilities of our society , however I believe in partnership or companionship you cant limit or condition your roles or contribution. [imageframe lightbox=”no” style_type=”dropshadow” bordercolor=”” bordersize=”0px” stylecolor=”” align=”none” animation_type=”fade” animation_direction=”down” animation_speed=”0.1″ class=”” id=””][/imageframe]
But is your spouse feeling your above statements ? or you have something else to say then meet a counselor & find out first what’s stopping you to live joyfully in this marriage.
Maybe your spouse feels like this : Roles and Responsibilities are to be explored, accepted, acknowledged, shared and not defined. Times had changed when people used to be dependent on each other for specific deeds. In today’s world, it is more of ownership you take to drive certain things and initiative you choose to share the responsibilities .