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Read MoreLearning about the personality of self & the partner will change the perspective of happiness in marriage. No marriage is ever perfect because two people with different personalities are involved in making it happen. Compatibility does not hinge on some personal inventory of traits. Compatibility isn’t something you have. It’s something you make. It’s a process, one that you negotiate as you go along.
In the beginning of a love relationship both partners give the best of themselves by ignoring the flaws of each other. Both try to adjust as to how & what partner likes. There is a purpose & desire to let go of shortcomings & pitfalls. Hormones are playing their roles. It feels good to be with someone who can ignore/sacrifice their needs & makes you feel special. You have a dream to take this relationship further so you do whatever is necessary. Couples make an image of each other based on this behavior which perfectly fits the image they have of the spouse they want.
Once the honeymoon phase is over, both get back to normal behavior. They already have an image of you which fits perfect with what they wanted but at this stage you are not behaving as the image they have in their mind. Some couples again adjust to the new spouse so they can live happy as a couple as if they are wearing glasses which only sees the partner as they wanted.
Temperament, character, and environment develop the personality of who we are. Our character continues to evolve throughout life, although much depends on inborn traits and early experiences.
Compatibility issue in Couples arises when one feel one is a giver & other is a taker. One is totally absorbed in themselves other is sacrificing everything for the spouse. One partner is highly energized with life whereas another partner is pessimistic about life & draining the energy of the spouse.
Every marriage has good and bad depending on how couples are adjusting to each other needs. We keep changing evolving so personality keeps changing also. Maybe over the years you see some changes now which before you were not able to see.
Are you rethinking about the compatibility with the partner ? Most of issues, conflicts, patterns and differences in marriage can be solved by learning how to better communicate in marriage & by learning how to handle difficult emotions.
It’s really about how do you manage your differences. Better communication & Emotional self-regulation can help you manage differences like these ::
Reminder : Couples with different personalities can improve Relationship skills to have a happy marriage. Counseling helps couples to understand that having different character traits adds spice to a relationship that may otherwise be bland. Counseling helps in dealing with compatibility issues through problem-solving skills & better communication. Learn some simple, effective steps to deal with compatibility differences by counseling . Again and again, It’s a disposition, an attitude, a willingness to work.
The problem is not the problem, the problem is your attitude about the problem.
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Marriage counseling in Delhi & Gurgaon is available 7 days/week 9 am to 7 pm. Marriage counseling helps you focus on joy, peace & harmony within ourselves & marriage. If you keep on struggling like a victim while situations don’t change. For a change to happen you will have to use new ways of thinking […]
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